Confidence is about action, taking control! It’s not the absence of fear– it’s really about taking action regardless of how you might be feeling.
It’s about doing what you need to do, in the short term, that will in the end help you to achieve your long-term goals, and that short-term action might feel incredibly uncomfortable! So, STOP wishing, and just get on with it!
The feeling of confidence comes only after action, not before it. You have to make things happen, if you don’t it ain’t gonna happen by itself. “Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear – not absence of fear’ – Mark Twain